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“You’ve Changed.” Yes. I hope I have. People say it like it’s an accusation. Like growth is betrayal. Like choosing yourself is something to apologize for. “You’ve changed” usually doesn’t mean you’re worse. It means you no longer fit the version of you that made them comfortable. For a long time, I lived in “let them.” Let them talk. Let them misunderstand. Let them expect. Let them decide who I should be. And I paid for it—quietly. With exhaustion. With resentment. With the

I honestly don’t remember who taught me how to cook. I don’t remember ever not knowing how. Growing up in a family that loves to eat and...

Welcome to the Chaos 🍳💙 Well, here we are. Our very first blog post under Chaos with the Coxwells. If you’ve landed here, you probably...